We need to communicate in the language others understand, rather than insisting using our native tongue to talk to others. Make perfect sense. However, in expressing love, there’re five languages, as introduced by Gary Chapman. Each of us prefer to use one or two love languages to express love to our significant other. At the same time, they appreciate the love expressed in the same language(s) the most.
These five love languages are:
- Words of affirmation
- Quality time
- Receiving gifts
- Acts of service
- Physical touch
So, whether the language you’re using with your lover is your lover’s preferred language? If so, she/ he can feel the love. If not, not so much.
The idea is to identify your own and your significant other’s love language preference. If they match. You’ll have a better understanding on why your relationship have been going so well till now. If they don’t match. It’s the time to find opportunities to renew and upgrade your relationship.
IDENTIFY AND LEARN YOUR LOVER’S LOVE LANGUAGE AND SPEAK TO THEM WITH IT!